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Morning, :) From now onwards, there will be daily posts! :D
OK, today's post will be about
how to forget somebody. :)))
V. interesting topic HAHAAHAH!!
After hearing how my friend tried forgetting a guy she like -,-
And i went to google it, :x AND LOOK @ THE RESULTS. :))
From google. :)
1. Cry out everything you have to cry about!2. Get busy!
3. Spend some time with your friends.
4. Avoid the person!5. Go out and see some different faces.
6. Avoid every kind of romantic thing!7. Take good care of yourself.8. Accept the process!
Though all these above are google-d, i personally think almost all the steps will help.
By crying you let everything out, its never good to bottle things up. Lock yourself in a room and cry and reflect 8-) (MY WAY. :D) It works quite well. :)
And uhm. Make yourself busy, plan outings with your friends etc. :) Then you'll get to have fun and smile and laugh like some retard instead of crying all day. << Crying all day is retarded. :)
I mean like. If you have cried a day before (like me HAHAHA), you will think its really dumb and stupid now. :) Oh, point 3 and point 2 almost the same luh.
AND I SPEND A LOT OF TIME WITH MY FRIENDS! To ice-creaming, To MOF, and blahblahblah. Reduce stress. :) Talk to them about your problems, allow them to give you their opinions. :)
Avoid that person. YEP, avoid. Don't even try to look at her/him. :) Uhm. Idk how to elaborate on this point. But just A-V-O-I-D. :) Thats the best thing to do. :)
The sixth point, idk how to elaborate leh -__- But i don't avoid romantic things LOL. :) Coz i'm not even romantic, AND I HATE ROMANTIC THINGS. Gives me the
eeeeeee effect. SO NO! Up to you if you want to forget or whatever. :)
NEXT.
Accept the process. YES THATS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING. Think about it, you have a million billion other things waiting for you to do, many many other people for you to meet. So why worry now? :) You gotta be strong, keep walking on! God will take care of you! :)
Oh here's a line i like. :) I saw it while reading. Zzz.
" However, if you truly, truly loved someone, then you'd be able to realise that it's OK if they don't love you back. True love gives and expects nothing in return; a true unrequited love."
YEAH OMG THIS SOUNDS SO CORRECT!! HAHAHA.
Oh here's another point which i think makes sense :
"14. Remember that life goes on. You had a life before them and you will have a happy life after them. It's up to you whether you want to keep dwelling on the past or just keep moving. Memories can haunt us but the best way to deal with them is to bury them where they belong, in the past. You've got to start looking to the future. "
YEAHHHBAYBEHH. :)
So to all the losers out there - CHEER UP AND MOVE ON! :D
BYEBYE!
Anyway:
Song of the Day: If I had you - Adam Lambert.
But if I had you, that would be the only thing that i would ever need
Yeah if I had you, then money fame and fortune never could compete
If I had you, life would be a party it'd be ecstasy.:) Enjoy! :D Hope you liked the post. :D
Oh there are other nice songs from his album too! :D
Signing off. :)